(---The following rules were published back almost 100 years ago....Guess What? They still work fine today!)
**Keep clothing clean, brushed and pressed, and shoes clean and polished.
** Practice working and playing vigorously.
** Take for granted the friendliness of others. Don't wait for them to speak first.
** Keep a written record of acquaintances, making it a point to meet new ones to keep the list growing.
** Help others to get acquainted.
** Go out of your way to cheer up anyone who may be ill.
** Study to do the little things that others like, and show your pleasure in doing them.
** Show special consideration for the helpless and infirm.
** In public functions be where the hard work is being done, when it is being done, and try to do your part.
** Practice putting your whole soul into whatever you do.
** Hold yourself to faithful performance without postponement of tasks that are distasteful.
** Study your own mistakes to determine how they might have been avoided.
** Study the personal qualities of effective leaders. To this end, cultivate their friendship as far as possible.
** Take advantage of opportunities to appear in public, as in leading meetings or taking part in programs.
** Contribute your ideas in conversation and discussion, if such ideas are good enough to command others' respect.
** Endeavor to overcome objectionable mannerisms.
** When appearing before others, look them in the face, and in the eye.
** In group activities, endeavor to contribute more than you get.
** Make a list of the things you think you can do better than the average person. Review it occasionally.
** Try consciously to keep your feelings "in tune" with the feelings of those about you.
** Refrain from hurting the feelings of another person, no matter how little he is, or how little you favor him.
** Watch for and seize upon opportunities to do favors unasked.
** Sacrifice, within reason, personal advantage when it stands clearly in the way of the welfare of the group.
** Put cooperation in place of competition. Do not disparage others, but help and encourage them instead.
** Study the needs and interests of others.
** Inform yourself before condemning.
** In cases of disagreement, try to get and consider sympathetically the other person's viewpoint.
** If contention comes, let it always be good-natured.
** Treat mere differences of opinion as trivial matters to be dismissed quickly from mind.
** Practice blindness to the faults of others, looking always for their good qualities instead.
** Resist the temptation to become ruffled with chronic fault-finding, and school yourself in tolerance.
** Do not oppose the ideas of others but substitute better ones.
** Lead others to your view by questions, rather than arbitrary statements or argumentation.
** Study thoughtfully particular situations in which others exhibit tact, or fail to do so.
** Suggest rather than command or demand.
** Conceal unpleasant feelings.
** Overcome the temptation to give way to anger.
** Keep grievances to yourself when tempted to recite them to others.
** Admit your mistakes and avoid "alibis".
** Do committee work when possible.
** Force yourself to do things you should do but are afraid you cannot do.
** Search for the bright side of things which look dark.
** Banish troubles quickly. Do not inflict them upon your friends, or allow the sun to set on them.
** Practice introducing new topics of conversation with small groups.
** Avoid making promises that you cannot fulfill.
** Never fail to keep appointments and promises.
** Endeavor consciously to find new and better ways of doing ordinary things.
** Give credit without fail to the proper persons and sources.
** Make a sincere effort to develop appreciation of good music, art, and literature.
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