Several years ago, Clancy I., was explaining to me that
Guilt, Resentment, Fear, Feelings of Personal Inadequacy and Spiritual Loneliness
were the five areas that seem to cause the most serious problems for people in recovery.
He shared with me seven questions that he uses to help a person start writing and he emphasised that
the questions and the writing are not intended to replace A.A.’s Step 4,
they just help the person get started.
Most of the people who approach Clancy or are referred to him, are very hardcore cases who have tried numerous times and approaches to solve their problems.
I have been using these “Seven Questions” with the people that I sponsor ever since Clancy shared them with me.
I’ve discovered that they are very effective when dealing with
rock-bottom newcomers
and with the
high-bottom intellectual types.
I have also used them numerous times
in helping oldtimers
who were struggling through a difficult period.
1. In looking back over your life – what memories are still painful, guilty, dirty?
If the newcomer procrastinates and doesn’t meet the deadline for the questions I usually consider that they are
not yet serious enough
to approach their problem and
I move on to help someone else.
I pass these questions on to you with the hope that they will help you in helping others as much as they have helped me.
Dallas B.
Source:
Step 12.Com WebSite